A long-haul flight can be daunting for any traveler but add tiny travelers to the mix and it’s time for some serious consideration. So is business class worth it?

Pros

• Priority check-in 
• Business class lounges (showers, quiet rooms, and family bathrooms) 
• Better meals in-flight 
• Lie-flat seats 
• Amenities (pillows, slippers, blankets) 

Their sleep schedule affects your entire trip. Think of it as an investment in the family arriving to your destination well-rested and ready to explore with a little less jet lag. 

The Flight

You’re given drink options upon boarding, so we each had our preferred welcome drink, apple juice and champagne respectively. United Polaris is a great option when traveling with kids because the seats are designed to provide a high level of privacy for passengers:

• Dividers: Adjustable dividers can be used to create a more personal space, separating you from other passengers.
• Angled design: The seats are angled to minimize noise and distractions from nearby passengers.
• Personal space: The seats offer ample legroom and personal space, ensuring a sense of privacy and comfort.
• Noise-reducing headphones: United Polaris provides noise-reducing headphones to help block out unwanted sounds.

Stella, my four-year-old, and I both liked digging through our Therabody goodie bags, which were stocked with lotions, balms, and other treats. United frequently changes their amenity kit partners. Don’t forget to ask about United’s Secret Menu, which isn’t actually so secret; you just need to know to ask for it.

• Slippers (available on request)
• Pajamas (available for flights scheduled 14+ hours)
• Between Meal Service (grilled cheese & fresh fruit upon request!)

Flight attendants may be able to accommodate special requests or offer off-menu items based on availability.

I turned off Stella’s TV and seat lights after her meal and ice cream sundae (what a treat). Then we made her bed with a comforter and various pillow options and tucked her in after reading her book, just like any other night. She slept untill breakfast was served. For a four-year-old, she did better than I had imagined and thoroughly enjoyed every aspect of it.

Tip: For a more convenient dining experience with kids, ask for Express Dining to have all your dishes served together.

Donovan, my one-year-old lap infant, took a bit longer to settle in, but as soon as he went to sleep, I requested that my dinner be served. I lowered the seat so he could sleep at the top, and I could sit at the bottom and eat my meal in peace. This alone is worth it for any mom traveling with little kids.

While I preferred the privacy of United Polaris, we also flew Lufthansa, where the flight attendants went out of their way to accommodate the kids. They handed them backpacks filled with chocolates, eye masks, coloring books, and small stuffed airplanes. During meals, they also provided options for baby food. It’s interesting to see how different airlines approach catering to families. This could be a factor to consider when choosing your next flight.

The Lounge

Don’t underestimate the power of an airport lounge. This is a great way to make traveling with kids more enjoyable and stress-free. My absolute favorite part? Access to cappuccino machines and water bottles. I’ll go into the many other reasons why a lounge is worthwhile, but for me, not having to stand in line and pay for a $10 coffee and a $8 bottle of water – takes the cake.

The cappuccino machines can not only brew my coffee, but they also offer warm water and milk options. When traveling with children who still drink from bottles, this was a game changer. I would fill one bottle for the lounge and one for boarding. It’s usually a good idea to have them drinking when the plane takes off to protect their ears. Airport lounge access is often included with business class tickets, which are typically more exclusive lounges for international flights. Here are some of the best parts of these lounges for families:

• Quiet and comfortable environment: A calmer atmosphere, away from the noise and crowds of the main terminal. 
• Dedicated play areas: Many lounges have designated play areas for children, with toys, games, and even climbing structures. This gives kids a chance to burn off energy and have fun while waiting for their flight.
• Food and drink options: A variety of food and drink options, including snacks, light meals ,and beverages. Fresh fruit, juice, and baked goods are easy grab and go items for the kids.
• Restrooms and changing facilities: Lounges often have cleaner and more spacious restrooms than those in the main terminal. A big advantage for families with young children who need to change diapers or use the restroom frequently.
• Comfortable seating: Lounges typically offer more comfortable seating options than the standard airport chairs. Having an area for the whole family to set up to rest and relax until boarding is key.

Not all airport lounges are created equal. The level of amenities, services, and exclusivity can vary significantly depending on airline, airport, and membership tier.

Things to Consider

Parents: you know your kids best! There is no perfect age but at any age setting appropriate expectations are important. Start small and work up to longer flights. 

I’ve flown economy, premium, premium plus, and business with my kids. I would recommend having a track record of good behavior so you know how your kids will react on the flight. 

If your child is under two, you can fly with a lap infant (no seat for them); the extra space is well worth it and most airlines charge a nominal fee for an infant (10% of your ticket).

If you’re traveling with a child under 6 months old (or under 20 lbs), an in-flight bassinet may be exactly what you need. Read my 5 Tips for Flying with a Lap Infant for travel tips and our experience with a bassinet on United.

Some people believe that a vacation truly begins the moment you leave your home, making the flight part of the overall experience rather than just a means to an end.