My dream has always been to spend a month abroad and experience what it’s like living like a local; it was everything and more. We spent the month in Italy walking to nearby cafes, shopping at boutiques, and taking the kids to the playground. Each morning, I played music on our fourth-floor apartment patio while the kids played with pots and pans because we hadn’t brought them anything else. Imagine that: no play room specifically designed for them, no daycare, and, to be honest, the hardest part was a month of no kid-snacks. I’ve always thought of my parenting approach as being family-centric rather than kid-centric. This trip was a big first step for me in demonstrating that not only I, but all of us, could thrive with this approach.

Want to know the nicest thing about children? They adjust, adapt, and, when given the opportunity, rise to the challenge. My three-year-old daughter asked if we could fly tomorrow after we just returned home from a long day of travel. My one-year-old was saying ciao to everyone in the airport, and as exhausted as we all were, I was so proud of them for learning to be not only good travelers, but global citizens. Travel is a gift, but a greater gift is an open mind and curiosity, which sometimes only children can rekindle in us.

As a self-proclaimed busybody, I was worried that this slow travel style wouldn’t suit me. But there was so much to see between Florence and Tuscany, and I felt a stronger sense of belonging knowing I had explored the area to new depths – unlike my usual three-day city trips.  All of this to say, think about your next trip to one spot in particular. We get so caught up in crossing countries off our lists that we miss out on the details.

Wondering what region of Italy might be best for you to visit? Check out my travel guides for Florence, Tuscany, Piemonte, and the Italian Lakes or keep scrolling to the bottom of this blog for the Ultimate Month through each region.

Keep in mind:

  • Italian restaurants open for dinner at 7:00/7:30pm and often do not have kid menus – that doesn’t mean they won’t accommodate and make them some fresh pasta.  
  • Italy is long! It’s best to book multi-city flights so you’re not retracing your steps. 
  • You can return to Italy every year and never get bored! 

I thoroughly enjoyed the slow travel experience and have some fantastic ideas for where my family and I might go next. As a luxury travel advisor, I can guide you towards crafting an unforgettable and immersive experience abroad. Below are some insights to consider when embarking on this extraordinary journey:

Designing a Bespoke Itinerary:

  • Curated Experiences: Let’s move beyond the usual tourist path. I’ll curate a bespoke itinerary tailored to your specific desires. Do you dream of indulging in culinary delights in Provence or exploring ancient ruins in Southeast Asia in style? We’ll craft an itinerary that reflects your passions, ensuring every day is filled with unique and enriching experiences.
  • Luxury Accommodations: Imagine waking up to breathtaking views from your private balcony in a luxurious hotel suite or relaxing in a charming villa with impeccable service. I have access to a portfolio of exclusive properties, boutique hotels, and luxurious retreats that cater to your desire for comfort, privacy, and personalized attention.

Elevating Your In-Country Experiences:

  • Private Guides and VIP Access: Skip the crowds and gain exclusive access to iconic landmarks with private guided tours. Imagine having an Egyptologist unveil the secrets of the pyramids or a renowned art historian guiding you through the Louvre – personalized experiences that elevate your understanding and appreciation.
  • Unique Cultural Immersions: Go beyond sightseeing and delve into the heart of the local culture. I can arrange private cooking classes with renowned chefs, exclusive wine tastings at esteemed vineyards, or even backstage access to cultural events. Imagine learning the art of truffle hunting in Italy or attending a private opera performance in Vienna – experiences that provide a deeper connection with the local way of life.

Luxury Transportation and Seamless Logistics:

  • First-Class Travel: Travel in style and comfort. Whether it’s arranging private jet charters, luxury train journeys, or chauffeured car services, I’ll ensure seamless transportation throughout your trip. Imagine arriving at your destination feeling refreshed and relaxed, ready to explore. My last client who visited Tuscany was blown away by being greeted by their driver moments after stepping off the plane. They loved the comfort found not only in the Mercedes but in not having to wait to book a taxi at the airport and picking up their pre-arranged car at the hotel, the next day. 
  • Expert Local Support: Throughout your month abroad, you’ll have a dedicated in-country support team available 24/7 to handle any logistical needs or last-minute requests. Knowing you have a team on the ground ensures a stress-free and enjoyable experience.
  • Throughout your month abroad, you’ll have a dedicated in-country support team available 24/7 to handle any logistical needs or last-minute requests. Knowing you have a team on the ground ensures a stress-free and enjoyable experience. My clients in Lake Como appreciated being able to call our partner on the ground to receive more information about where to meet for their boat tour around Bellagio. Being able to communicate on WhatsApp with local staff for questions that need quick answers is priceless.

Additional Considerations for a Month of Luxury:

  • Unpacking Services and Packing Assistance: Imagine arriving at your destination to a fully unpacked wardrobe. I can arrange unpacking services and even assist you with pre-trip packing, ensuring you bring everything you need for a month of luxury living.
  • Exclusive Shopping Experiences: Indulge in retail therapy with exclusive shopping sprees at renowned boutiques and private viewings at art galleries. Imagine having a personal shopper curate a selection of unique treasures or securing an appointment with a renowned designer – experiences that cater to your refined taste.
  • VIP Events and Cultural Access: Gain access to exclusive events and galas not available to the public. Imagine attending a private film screening at a prestigious festival or enjoying a VIP box at a world-class sporting event – experiences that create memories that will last a lifetime.

By partnering with me, your month abroad will be an extraordinary journey filled with unparalleled luxury, unique cultural experiences, and seamless logistics. Let’s discuss your travel dreams and craft an itinerary that surpasses your expectations.

The Ultimate Month in Italy 

As this was my sixth trip to Italy, I chose to embrace “il dolce far niete,” or the “sweetness of doing nothing,” and spend this time only seeing Tuscany. That being said, I’ve included my suggested itinerary below with my recommended schedule for the perfect month-long Italian escape.

Milan (1-4) Arrive in Milan and be whisked away by private car directly to the opulent Bulgari Hotel Milano. 

Lake Como (5-8) Lake Como is Italy’s glimmering gem that is famous for its luxury escapes. Discover the beautiful lake and its magnificent villas by private Venetian boat. We’ll arrange a charming skipper to take you on a full day adventure, ending in Bellagio.

Florence (9-12) is the birthplace of the Renaissance and we arrange museum tours, progressive dinners, or maybe an after hours exclusive visit to see David.

Tuscany (13-15) is full of rolling hills, medieval villages, and we highly recommend a private cooking class, wine tastings, and vespa tour.

PORTO ERCOLE (16-18) between Tuscany and Rome, we love to include Hotel Il Pellicano for some seaside bliss.

Rome (19-22) is the eternal city meant for exploring charm, weekend markets, secret bars, and the iconic sites like the Sistine Chapel, Vatican, and Colosseum.

Ravello (23-26) is next on the list as we head towards the Amalfi Coast, but first how about a few nights at Palazzo Avino in this quiet stunning town.

Positano (27-30) is one of those places that feels more like a movie set than real life and after a day at the beach clubs or trattorias, you’ll return home to one of the most romantic views in Italy.